Sniffing Out BS–Help For Your Meetings

Steve Jobs had what others called a ‘reality distortion field’.  In other words, there were times in which Jobs didn’t have a good grasp on reality. He was a showman that  believed his own stories—even ones that were without merit. Complicating the situation, Jobs would be prone to exaggerate, misrepresent facts, manipulate resources to his benefit—things that didn’t engender trust. (Note: there were other times in which Jobs used his reality distortion field to push people to do things that were thought to be impossible—arguably a good thing.)

People wrote this off to “Steve just being Steve.”  Jobs was far more prone to do this than most of us.  Yet, there were times when Steve’s inability to see reality hurt his  organization’s ability to do great work.  Each of us, in varying degrees, do this too…believing our own stories. Let’s get real here…some of our stories just don’t reflect reality.  And when our inability to be objective goes unchallenged it retards our organization’s ability to do great work.

General Richard Myers, the former Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff knew this. While Chairman, General Myers introduced a protocol for the meetings held by the Joint Chiefs. The protocol was intended to sniff out (what they considered to be) someones ‘BS’. ‘BS’ was considered to be people’s stories that didn’t reflect reality, comments that bordered on wishful thinking, or diatribes that bordered on self-delusional grandeur. The Joint Chiefs committed themselves to do great work–and that meant calling out people on their ‘stuff’.

General Myers, a contributor to The Power of Professionalism, told me the protocol worked great for them. That’s been my experience too. Calling people out on their ‘stuff’ in some organizations can initially feel like it’s personal. However, over time people get beyond that.  The reason is simple—the focus is on the work, not the person.

Meeting protocols (a meeting norm) produce better meetings…which is condusive to doing great work.  Today’s blog identifies one such norm. Simply put…it’s a pre-meeting agreement that makes it safer for people to speak up on a sensitive topic. You can compliment this meeting norm by having attendees throw a soft-sided object (or equivalent) at a predetermined location (or even a person) when a meeting norm is violated.  This introduces a lighter side to an otherwise touchy situation. There’s a gazillion ways to compliment a meeting norm in this manner.

To do great work, you’ve got to be objective.  You’ve got to see the world as it is–not how we want it to be. Using this type of meeting protocol helps keep everyone honest…keeps people on track…and gives you the best chance to do great work.

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